Month: March 2013

Thirty Years of Notes to My Son

Guest Post by Dean Tingey Age – 1 week Dear Son, I love you so much.  I can’t believe you are here.  After losing two babies during pregnancy, your mother and I feel so blessed to have you in our…

A Question of Standing

This post is the third of several providing background information about the LDS church’s involvement in the Prop 8 campaign in California. The series will provide pertinent court case and appellate background information to readers interested in March’s Supreme Court…

A Shepherd of Israel

Eighteen months ago, I was called to serve closely with Bishop Don Fletcher in the Bay Ward here in San Francisco, as his executive secretary. In my Mormon career, I’ve had the great blessing to have had some amazing bishops,…

When family ties cannot bind

We spend a lot of time talking about family – how important families are, how they’re the best place for raising children, how they need to be protected.  We recognize that children benefit from homes with loving, supportive parents who…

Experiencing Asexuality and Owning My Body

Jen Stockett was the oldest of five children, born and raised in an active LDS family. She currently works in a small business with her partner, and spends her time outside of work outside with her horse as much as…

A Gay Mormon Reads the Scriptures: The Book of Mormon

I first came to the Book of Mormon with the uncritical eyes and mind of a child. Some of my earliest encounters with the Book of Mormon include my dad reading me bedtime stories from Emma Marr Petersen’s Book of…

Celibacy: A Best-Case Scenario

Author must write anonymously because of concern that she would lose her job in a part of Utah where discrimination in the work-place is not illegal. I’ve heard it said that the LDS church doesn’t require anything more from gay…

Let’s Talk About the Data

Chris Janousek lives and works in the Pacific Northwest. He is a professional ecologist and earned a PhD from the University of California, San Diego in 2005. Originally a convert to the LDS Church, he is no longer active and…

Our Families: Trey and Guy

This is the latest installment in our series on LGBT Mormon families.  For more information, check out Affirmation.org. ____________________ It was a Phase Trey: After our missions (to Korea and Sweden) in the early 80’s, we both attended BYU. I…