Category: Coming out

How I Came Out to My Ward

James Brinton The coming out process is a continual journeyby James Brinton (cross-posted from The Affirmation Messenger, a weekly newsletter from Affirmation)The coming out process is a unique journey for us all. To each of us is given the freedom to…

Coming Out (A Young Returned Missionary Shares His Story)

(originally published at my blog Broken Lights) Yesterday I sat down with one of my professors to talk about economic history. After briefly discussing the decline of the Netherlands in the mid 18th century, he paused and asked me what…

A Valentine to My Gay and Lesbian Friends–Welcome to the World of Romantic Love!

I have a story I want you to listen to and remember on Valentine’s Day and hopefully beyond. When my former husband Gerald was staying with me at the end of his life in 1984, preparing to die from AIDS…

The Catalyst

I am the father of a young gay son.  I am also a lifelong member of the LDS Church, a temple recommend holder and the Elder’s Quorum President in my ward.  Having been thrown into the teeth of one of…

Born of Goodly Parents

Most Mormon LGBT are traumatized by their Mormon experience; I was not.  My narrative begins with the question “Why, as a gay youth, was my Mormon experience so positive?