Author: Thomas Montgomery

It’s Complex

“On one occasion Jesus came upon a group arguing vehemently with His disciples. When the Savior inquired as to the cause of this contention, the father of an afflicted child stepped forward, saying he had approached Jesus’s disciples for a…

What the Heck is Traditional Marriage?

In light of all the fuss over DOMA, Prop 8 and the Supreme Court, I have grown weary of the debates over same sex marriage.  Five years ago I rather unenthusiastically participated in supporting Prop 8 in California.  As an…

The Victoria Theater

  The journey of my family since my son came out last year has been a roller coaster ride of highs and lows. The spiritual, intellectual and emotional investment required to make sense and find peace between two polarizing worlds…

Defending Marriage

Five years ago I voted ‘Yes’ on Prop 8 in California.  I am an active Mormon who campaigned and went door to door spreading the message and distributing campaign materials.  It isn’t accurate to say that I followed the Brethren blindly because…

Why Does the Lord Allow His Covenant People to Err?

(Admin note) No More Strangers is a new forum seeking to advance the dialogue regarding LGBT people and Mormonism.  As such, it has the good fortune of having bloggers who have made significant contributions to Latter-day Saint LGBT people, their…

Cool Tolerance

My son came out to us (his parents) a little over a year ago.  My wife and I, for some blessed reason, were able to rapidly traverse the landmine ridden, 180 degree, whiplash inducing evolution from Prop 8 campaigners to…

The Catalyst

I am the father of a young gay son.  I am also a lifelong member of the LDS Church, a temple recommend holder and the Elder’s Quorum President in my ward.  Having been thrown into the teeth of one of…